1 Corinthians 13 says Love is patient and kind, love does not envy or boast, It is NOT Arrogant or Rude.........
Here is what Websters has to say about Arrogant and Rude
* Exaggerating or disposed to exaggerate ones own worth or importance often by an overbearing manner
*Proceeding from or characterized by arrogance -
*An attitude of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner or in presumptuous claims or assumptions
* Being in a rough unfinished state:
*Lacking refinement or delicacy
*Offensive in manner or action
As much as I could go through and break down each word of these descriptions I think we can see these are not desirable ways to be and definitely desirable to God.
So if Love is not Arrogant (with an overbearing attitude of Superiority) or Rude (Vulgar, Ignorant, Crude, Underdeveloped or Savage), then I/we need to be elegant, courteous, and civilized in our actions towards others! Selah